Just a casual trip to Long Beach. Documenting the day.
Just a casual trip to Long Beach. Documenting the day.
Episode 2: Downtown! I find some trendy places and a cool bridge…which is no longer there. 😦
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I take road trips when I can, but being a Production Assistant currently consumes most of my life. I wrote about what I do as a PA earlier. Now I’d like to write about how I became one.
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Finding an entry-level position in Hollywood is harder than you think. But thanks to my struggles and stupid mistakes, I’ve learned a few things to help anyone get started on the right track.
Most blogs that talk about becoming a PA just tell you to “network!” and “be persistent!” And although those two things are important, those blogs usually fail to tell you how or even why. I wanted to write something that went a little more in depth. In order to start off on the right foot in Hollywood, you also have to learn how the industry works. This post has nearly 5000 words, but I hope you find it just as useful and educational as it is long.
It’s been over two years since I moved to L.A. I’d say I officially made it “in” the business in early 2014 when I landed a PA gig on my first real TV show. I had had a lot of small (and unpaid) PA jobs prior to that, but never in major television. It took me longer than some to get this coveted entry-level position, but certainly less time than others.
My boss always likes to say, “There’s more than one way to skin a cat.” That saying definitely applies to getting into the entertainment business. There are so many routes someone can take to get to the exact same spot, it’s impossible to cover all of them. But for purposes of this article, I’m going to focus on a young person trying to get their first production assistant/entry-level job on a major film, TV show, or at a legitimate production company.
I surely did not know what I was doing when I first got here. I naively thought that because being a production assistant is the lowest position on the totem pole, it’d be an easy job to snag. I thought that because I was college educated and went to film school and worked on some short indie films back home, I’d be at an advantage in L.A. I thought that because I knew a few people living and working in the city, I’d be fine. Nope. After my fluke one month stint as an apprentice editor, I learned the harsh realities of finding a job in Los Angeles. I went into debt, got strung along at unpaid internships, and was weeks away from calling it quits and heading back home.
It was frustrating. I was definitely qualified to be a production assistant. It’s an entry-level position. I knew I could be better than many, if not most, of the PAs already working on shows. Why wasn’t this working out for me? I spent over a year struggling to find steady work. As I said in my first blog post, I was sleeping on air mattresses (plural, because they kept popping) for over a year before I could afford a real bed.
But last year, I finally got the phone call I was waiting for: “We’d love to have you on our team. Can you start Monday?” And that Monday I started working on a TV show at one of the major studios in Hollywood as a PA. I got my foot in the door.
Looking back, I made a lot of mistakes. I wasted so much time on things I shouldn’t have. I missed opportunities that were staring me in the face. I turned down a potentially great job because it wasn’t perfect! But in the end, it all worked out. I’m in the industry now. I can’t say with 100% certainty I will be safely employed for the rest of my life. But I feel confident that I have the know-how to keep afloat during the rough times. So now I’d like to extend my PA knowledge to you. I want to help the newcomers flocking to Hollywood avoid the rookie mistakes I made. My advice and my way are not the only routes to landing a job. But I truly believe they will give you a tremendous head start in understanding how Hollywood works and understanding how you can put yourself in opportune situations to land the job.
The way Hollywood works is not the same as how the rest of the world works.
Brutal, but true. In most fields, your college education is a major contributing factor in securing a job. Your training in school is supposed to give you the skills to competently work at a business right away. Sure, it’s not always that cut and dry, especially in today’s economy, but for the most part, it’s true. In the entertainment industry, a college education doesn’t guarantee you to a job right away, or even a job at all. Anyone, educated or not, can become a PA and work their way up to director, producer, editor, etc. Everyone has to start at the bottom. Everyone has to prove their worth first. Yes, there are exceptions, but your Director of Photography credit on that student film you made means nothing in Tinseltown. You can’t expect to land a DP position on anything major when you first arrive here. The credits just don’t transfer. It’s like trying to apply to a prestigious art school and saying you were the best finger painter in kindergarten. It doesn’t fly.
Don’t think having a formal education is completely worthless though. It can still be a huge benefit in jumpstarting your career. It’s just not a requirement 0r a guaranteed ticket in.
I used to hate this saying. I’d argue, “But I’m a hard worker. Doesn’t that matter? Why should ‘who I know’ limit me?” Sure, you can complain about how unfair it is or you can learn to play the game. I actually like this saying now because it puts me in control. Who I know helps get me jobs! I know that if I need to meet a certain person to get the job, it’s up to me to figure out how to meet them.
You don’t have to be friends with A-list actors and directors to get a job here. The best way, I’ve found, is meeting a friend of a friend. And everyone has a friend in the area you’re trying to get into. Build enough relationships with these people, and show that you’re a hard worker, and eventually someone will pass your name along to someone who’s hiring.
Also, once you’re already in the business you’ll love that it’s “all about who you know.” The people you work with become the people who hire/refer you for your next job. How great is that? You’re in total control of your success. This way of doing things is much easier than sending in a resume blind and hoping for the best.
Sometimes getting the job is just about luck and timing. Some people move to Hollywood and within a week they land an assistant position to a top television producer. Are they the best person for the job? Not necessarily. The person happened to move at the right time. The producer happened to need an assistant at that time. And their needs just happened to line up. I’d say a big part of how I landed my network TV gig was luck and timing. It may not be fair, but there’s a lot you can do to make sure those doors of opportunity are always open.
So I know I probably depressed you when I said having a college education doesn’t mean anything in this industry. And that’s true from the standpoint of entitlement and working your way up. But if you’re still in school, you do have a huge advantage. You qualify to apply for internships – internships at major, LA-based companies. Most of the good internships require you to currently be enrolled in school. And there are a lot of great companies looking for interns! If it’s possible, I highly recommend moving out to LA for a summer (or a semester) and applying to as many internships as you can. It’s expensive to live out here, but if you find the right internship, it can be absolutely worth it. These internships have major advantages:
1. They give you reputable L.A. experience, which is what you want on your resume. Getting a “Video Intern” credit at your local library back home isn’t quite as impressive as say, “post-production intern” at a LA-based company.
2. They give you direct contacts and future possibilities of employment in L.A. If your employers like you, they’ll want to hire you eventually. If not, they can still help you find work elsewhere through their contacts.
Here’s an example of just how beneficial L.A. internships can be. My friend Nick got a job right out of school. We had very similar skill levels and educations. The only real difference was that Nick had three solid L.A. internship credits on his resume. I had one credit from Michigan when I was a media center video intern. Nick’s internships were at a post house for music videos, a post house for commercials, and a small production company producing reality TV. All three were well-known names in the industry.
When Nick graduated, one of the companies offered him a position. And when applying for other jobs, he landed multiple interviews. Months later, we were talking and I realized we applied for many of the same jobs. How many interviews did I land? 0. I didn’t even receive a followup email. Nick was swimming in choices.
I know, other factors might have been at play. For example, it could have been good timing and luck, as I mentioned earlier. Or maybe Nick had a killer resume. But I’m confident that when companies are looking for an entry-level candidate, and they see you’ve worked for recognizable, established companies, your resume is going to go to the top of the pile.
It’s no surprise that internships help get you a job, but in this business, it’s the L.A. internships that really do the trick.
Look up your favorite companies and see if they offer summer internships. Also, don’t be afraid to use some of the more “generic” websites like Craigslist or Indeed to look for companies. They post many opportunities. Just make sure you always do your own research before taking any job. If you’re looking for an entertainment-based website that posts internships, I’ve had success using EntertainmentCareers.net.
Hey, you can still get a job here too! You may not have the connections or a killer resume yet, but you can get them pretty quickly. Here’s what I suggest:
If you’re moving out to LA, give yourself a set amount of time you’ll look for industry work, before finding a part-time job. If you don’t find work in that amount of time, take a part-time job, in any industry! Why? First, you’re giving yourself a set amount of time to focus on one thing and one thing only: landing an entertainment job. Second, a set time will keep you hungry during the search. You didn’t move out to LA to work at a grocery store, so you’ll be motivated to look harder as the days fly by. Third, you need money. Duh. And if you don’t find a job within your set amount of time, this keeps you from going into debt. As an added bonus, you’ll meet coworkers who might be in or know people in the industry. I made the mistake of looking for industry work, getting an unpaid internship (thinking it would turn into paid work) and going way too many months without an income. In my mind, the paid work was always just around the corner, so there was no reason to get a temporary job at TJ’s. Big mistake. Get a job and start making money. You can always quit when something better comes along.
You can find legitimate, full-time work and/or small gigs that will lead to the full-time work right on Craigslist. Start by looking to fill up your weekends with PA work on small music videos and short films. Someone is always trying to make the next Star Wars on a $1 budget. There is a lot of crap out there, and it’s difficult to sort through it all, but I believe it’s worth the effort. If you have a halfway decent resume and you can convince the job poster that you’re a hard-working and dependable individual, these jobs are pretty easy to snag. The pay might be $50 a day, free lunch, or even nothing. But these gigs can lead to real opportunities. Many people will argue with me on this, but if you’re new to the industry or LA, working for free can still be beneficial. You may be working for free, but that doesn’t mean everyone else on the crew is. They may have connections and friends they can introduce you to. Or they’ll want to hire you for the next job, which will be paid. Craigslist is a great place to start filling up your resume and make connections quickly. A craigslist gig is actually what led me to my network TV gig.
A quick note about working for free: Only work for free if you’re learning something new and/0r it will help you advance. If you’re not learning anything to help you grow in your field, find something else.
Make it a daily routine to go through each site, multiple times a day, looking for new jobs you can apply for. Start here:
Some of the most popular job-hunting sites in the industry:
Follow your favorite companies and job sites. Many times they will post ads on their social media pages making it easy for you to see new jobs right on your news feed.
Also look for closed groups you can join such as:
There are plenty of these types of groups on Facebook. Spend some time looking through them.
EMAIL JOB LISTS:
This one can be tricky, because you have to find a way to get on the lists. This is where knowing the right people can help. Many schools have alumni email lists you can get on that send out regular job postings to a group of people. People love helping out someone who went to their school. First, find out if your school has an email list you can get on. If not, find a friend who can get on one and have them forward you the emails. Some may frown upon this, but remember, most job posters are sending out job opportunities via email in hopes that their network will bring in a good catch for them. In other words, they expect their emails to be forwarded. If not, they’ll say so.
Google “UTA Job list”. It’s one of the most well-known entertainment industry job lists not available to the public. Although a quick Google search will show you how easy it is to find. It mostly covers assistant and entry-level positions.
People love to give advice and help others. Once you start meeting people in the industry, work on building your relationships with them and start asking them questions. Consider even asking if you can shadow them for a day. When I was on the hunt for PA work, I met an editor for coffee and asked him a list of questions about the business. I told him that I eventually want to become an editor and I’m just trying to get my foot in the door. He gave a lot of great advice: PA knowledge, how to move up, what to expect, etc. After our meeting, he kept his ears open for me and forwarded any job opportunities he received. We still keep in touch and he always knows 1. When I’m looking for work and 2. My ultimate goal of becoming an editor. This is what you ideally want all of your connections to know. If you have multiple contacts who know these two things about you, you’ll have your own personal job search team working while you sleep.
Also find forums and websites where you can ask general questions about the business. For example, there are many online communities for active filmmakers and editors.
Here are a few communities you can learn from and reach out to:
Many people who are already established in the industry are active in these kinds of forums. Spend some time finding ones that apply to you and ask for advice.
I also like anonymousproductionassistant.com. It’s not really a forum or community, but the author posts common questions and answers for people trying to get started in the business. It’s always really solid advice.
If you already know people in the business, make sure you check in with them regularly and let them know you’re still looking for work. For example, if you met someone who has connections during one of your weekend Craigslist gigs (and they liked you), follow up with him/her. You don’t want to bother them, but you want them to keep your name in the back of their mind in case they hear of anything. Don’t check in more than once every month or two, though. This is a good strategy when your current gig is about to end too.
If you’re interested in working for a company that doesn’t currently have a job posting: cold call. Go old school. Find an entertainment biz directory online that lists all the entertainment companies in your area. Print it out, and highlight all the companies you’re interested in. Call them up, one by one. Don’t email. Don’t make it easy for them to ignore you. Say who you are, what you do, and ask if they have any PA positions available. Be specific and confident in what you want. If they say no, ask if there’s someone you can send your resume to for later use. Again, if you can keep yourself in the back of their mind, when they are looking to hire, you’ll be one of the first people they think of.
This won’t work for every company. For example, you can’t just call up Warner Brothers and ask for a job. They’ll just direct you to their career website. However, for many smaller companies and production houses, they’ll be impressed by your boldness. Some may be annoyed, but who cares. Most won’t. And you need a job! If you impress them on the phone and follow through with your resume, you’re making their hiring process easier, and increasing your chances.
Note: If a job posting says “Please No Calls,” you do not call!
Make friends. Join meet up groups related to film (and not related). Be nice to everyone. Ask someone out to coffee. Befriend everyone you meet. Do things you wouldn’t normally do to make connections in the business. Everyone is a connection out here. The best way to find a job is to find a friend who’s in the business or knows someone in the business. The computer can only get you so far. You’ve probably heard it too many times already: It’s all about who you know. Networking is extremely important in any career field, but to land a job in the entertainment business, it’s probably the most important thing. Also, unlike most jobs which last years, if not decades, most entertainment industry jobs last months. You usually get hired for the duration of the show, film, or commercial, and once it ends, you’re looking for the next job. That’s why networking is so critical. If you don’t continue to build your network, you won’t have anyone to help you find a job when your gig ends. Networking never stops.
When I first moved out here, I had a job as an apprentice editor. Because I was new, and unsure how the industry worked, I didn’t go out of my way to connect with my coworkers. I heard horror stories of people getting fired for saying the wrong thing to the editors. I did my work well but I kept my head down. I didn’t ask questions. I didn’t get to know anyone. When the gig ended, no one even knew I wanted to be an editor. I just left without making any connections. I was an idiot. It was only a month-long gig, but I had plenty of time to plant the seed. This was such a missed opportunity for me. Remember when I said I want to be an editor? This could have been a direct ticket in.
This not only helps you gain experience and build a network, but it’s also critical for you to be ready to go when an opportunity presents itself later in you career. If you want to be famous director, you should be directing stuff now. If you want to be an editor, you should be editing stuff now. You may make your living by being a PA, but you should be crafting your skill, in where you want to be, by making your own stuff. You never know when a great opportunity will come up. Be ready.
Get a team together and make your own stuff. People love to find a group they can regularly work with and rely on. Plus it’s just smart. If you need to find a team, consider joining a Meetup group like the LA Film Collective (active as of early 2015). They get together about once a month to shoot a short film. Every crew position is open for you to gain experience. There are a handful of Meetups like this one!
We live in a great time when making videos can be relatively cheap. Good cameras and equipment are affordable. We have sites like Youtube and Vimeo where you can promote yourself and gain a following. Take advantage of it all. The tradition way of moving up the ladder still exists, but so many alternate ways have opened up, too. If you’re doing things on the side, you’re just increasing your chances for success.
Soon after I moved to LA, I landed an interview for a wedding videography company. I wasn’t very happy about it though, because I didn’t really want to edit wedding videos. After all, that’s not why I moved to LA. Using this logic, I decided to not even go to the interview. WTH, Randy!? I guess I was worried I’d get stuck there and be in the wrong field for too long. Never turn down an interview. You never know what will happen. Had I taken the interview and landed the job, I would not have gone thousands of dollars into debt, I probably would have learned a plethora of new editing skills, and who knows, maybe I’d have loved it. Things worked out eventually, but don’t be like me. If you are offered an interview or job, don’t not take it just because it’s not perfect. There are a thousand ways to skin a cat, remember? You can still get to where you want to go even if you start somewhere else.
Even though I said it’s all about who know, resumes are still used in this industry. It’s important that your resume is top-notch. I’m always amazed at what my bosses remember about me, months later, from reading my resume.
“Oh you worked on that ABC show right?”
“Hey, honor student, get me some coffee!”
Screw all the resume advice you hear from so-called experts. The entertainment business is different. Get rid of that pointless objective. Margin size doesn’t matter. Times New Roman font is just fine. Don’t write that you work well with others. You’re a functioning member of society. You better work well with others!
Here’s what’s important:
If you are lazy or incompetent you will leave this business as fast as you got in. Show your superiors you want to be there. Impress them. Make them happy they hired you. This is what keeps you employed. Hollywood is small and word travels fast. Don’t give anyone a reason to not like you.
There is no single, clear-cut way to break into the industry. However, I do believe that if you follow the advice given above, you’ll get in much faster – or at the very least, you’ll avoid my stupid mistakes.
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Hello! I feel like it’s been awhile.
I also feel like this how every undisciplined, cliche writer on WordPress starts a post. And then repeats the routine every three months. See you in January?
I just wanted to take some time to let you know Hollywood is eating me alive. I’m currently PAing on a gig that usually goes 12-16 hours a day, six to seven days a week. I’m not complaining. This is actually quite common in my industry. And it’s fun at times. But it’s a big change from my last show which was only 11 hours a day, five days a week. I had so much free time!! Anyway, my current gig will take me through mid-December. The good news is I’m making lots of money (GoPro Hero4, anyone?). The bad news is I don’t see how I’ll have time for road trips anytime soon. Maybe I’ll try to do a Sunday day trip if I’m not too exhausted. Or maybe I’ll write a post about my job.
I also bought a new night stand. And black socks.
I’ve made a few changes to the blog. If you didn’t notice, I don’t blame you, but just pretend you did. I added a nice new “Video” tab on the top navigation bar with some videos you probably haven’t seen yet. Check ’em out.
I’ve also added a Facebook Page (see right column). If you like reading my stuff, please show me some love by following me on there or one of my other social media pages:
I have 60 WordPress readers, which means 54 are probably spammers. So there are at least six of you who are real. Let’s connect.
Update: Check out my Palm Springs road trip video above.
If you’re thinking about taking a vacation in Palm Springs, I have one piece of advice for you: Don’t visit in September. I made the non-SoCal native mistake of assuming September would be cool in temperature like most normal places. Apparently, September is California’s hottest month of the year. The weekend I went to Palm Springs seemed to verify that. And being in a desert only made it worse.
For those of you, like me, who know nothing about California (except that its residents believe it’s the greatest place on earth) Palm Springs is a small town located in the middle of the desert. It’s about a two hour drive east of LA, right outside Joshua Tree. The drive there is interesting because at first you look around and just see mountains, sand, and dirt everywhere. Then all of a sudden, everything turns bright green and you see a welcome sign for Palm Springs. Every road is lined with perfectly straight palm trees and well-groomed plants. Shops, streets, and restaurants are up-to-date yet still have a lot of character. It’s hard to believe such a clean, wealthy, and modern city sits in the middle of a desolate desert.
One great thing about Palm Springs is that the city can act as a central hub to all the other sites and attractions on your road trip or vacation. the Coachella Valley, Joshua Tree, and Salton Sea are all easy day trips from Palm Springs. People go to Palm Springs to get away for a weekend. Golf, bars, pools, and casinos become their relaxation. Many people move there to retire. It’s not exactly a city to go do and see stuff. But don’t let that stop you from making a visit there! Spend an afternoon exploring the city and then spend the rest of your time outside it.
Let’s get back to why you shouldn’t visit in September:
This makes it sound like a really depressing place, but I want to make it clear that I did have a good time. Here’s what I enjoyed:
The people are very friendly- probably because they never see anyone in September and get lonely. Pam, our dinner waitress, would strike up a five minute conversation with us every time she came to bring our food or drinks. The single woman (probably age 65) behind us joined in too.
Cheap prices. Did I mention I bought a beer for $4 dollars?
Abundant streets signs that said: “Free Unlimited Parking”. It was almost like they were trying to taunt people from LA.
So if you’re visiting Palm Springs, what should you see?
Cabazon Dinosaurs. If you’re coming from LA, stop in Cabazon and see the giant dinosaurs. There’s also an exhibit you can pay for, but the giant dinosaurs in front are completely free.
Wind turbines. You can’t miss them.
Downtown. Plenty of parking, nice shops, and a “Hollywood Walk of Fame” sidewalk. Unfortunately, I have to admit the one in LA is a little better.
Mt. San Jacino tram. I’m sure it’s open now. About $25 to take a ride to the top. #1 attraction on TripAdvisor.
Coachella Nature Preserve. Palm trees, lizards, oasis, and a view of the San Andreas fault. I highly recommend it. I’d also highly recommend bringing water and staying on the trails…
Any lake, pond, or swimming pool you can find.
Tip: Don’t ask your hotel concierge what to do because ours just said this: “Oh, the tram is closed? Then, there’s nothing to do here.”
The Agua Caliente Band of Cahuilla Indians of the Agua Caliente Indian Reservation (that’s how you have to say their name every time) owns most of the land in Palm Springs. $$$
Apparently, there aren’t street lights on most of the main roads (truth) because the citizens want to be able to admire the stars at night (questionable). How does star gazing trump common safety practices??
Most restaurants and bars close around 9PM. Although they do have some clubs and a casino.
Premium beers in many of the bars are Heineken and Corona. We went to one place and they only had four kinds of beer.
They got rid of the giant Marilyn Monroe statue earlier this year. Now, it seems, the city really has nothing to attract tourists. Seeing giant dinosaurs and a giant Marilyn on the same trip would have made my day!
Who should visit:
Everyone I know speaks highly of Big Bear. If you live in LA, it’s where you go to get away. Church goers attend retreats there. Big time television producers have their second and third homes there. Some athletes even rent cabins and go there to train. Me? I just wanted to stop choking on polluted air in Los Angeles and get away for a weekend.
You know that saying that goes something like, Los Angeles is the only place where you can go snowboarding and surfing in the same day? It’s a lie. First, you can’t go snowboarding in LA. The nearest “real” mountain is two hours away. Second, what about the rest of California? Surely there are other beautiful places with mountains and the Pacific in close proximity of each other. Typical Los Angeles arrogance, thinking they’re so unique. Anyway, that’s how I learned about Big Bear- as one of the few snowboarding mountains only two hours away. Then I learned it’s a great place to visit in the summer too.
The drive there is actually really enjoyable. Once you get about an hour out into the San Bernardino area, the scenery really changes. The road starts to wind and get really steep as you drive into the mountains. Palm trees turn into pine trees, and you only see a house or building every mile or so. The higher you go, the better the view becomes. You hug some of these turns and realize that feet away from you are giant cliffs that lead into valley down below, or giant cliffs that could lead to your death with one wrong move. Either one.
Once you get into Big Bear, you don’t really feel like you’re high up in the mountains, but you definitely feel like you’re away from the city- less annoying people and more space. For me, it reminded me so much of northern Michigan. The air is clean, the giant lake sparkles, and nature greets you everywhere you look.
What I especially liked about Big Bear was how diverse the different areas of the lake were. On one side you have the city, with the touristy village. Then on another side you have your public beaches. Then on the other side is the residential road with houses and cabins that takes you right next to the calm water. It’s a nice drive around the lake. I would know. I got lost looking for a hiking trail and had to drive around it three times.
It probably wins awards for village you’d most likely see in a snow globe. Or in a propaganda video. It’s beautiful. Meticulously taken care of, clean, and it has lots of parking. If you’re going to Big Bear, you have to check out the village. The main area is a small street that’s ideal for spending a few hours in. There’s basically only one building for everything you need – ice cream, post office, theater, souvenirs, etc. However, there are a handful of restaurants in the front. Grab an ice cream cone and take a walk down its perfect sidewalk.
I went hiking on the Castle Rock trail. It’s tough to find, but well worth it if you do. Big trees, giant boulders, and one hell of a view at the top! Once you get close to the top, the trail stops being a trail and turns into a boulder climb. It gets kind of dangerous if you don’t have good balance. There was a family in front of me that wasn’t too athletic (think multiple Augustus Gloops from Willy Wonka), but they were leaping from rock to rock and climbing over one another as though they wouldn’t die if they missed a step. Crazy.
THE FOOD AND DRINKS
I’m a big fan of dive bars. If I’m in a fancy bar or restaurant I usually don’t know what to do with myself and end up punching someone. The great thing about small towns, like Big Bear, is they usually have plenty of dive bars. It’s fun to see who are the locals are and who are the tourists. I went to a small one not too far away from the village. It was the perfect dive bar. Dollar bills on the wall, license plates on the ceiling, and business cards in the bathroom with the faces of the people currently sitting at the bar. It couldn’t have been better!
I can’t be certain because it was my first time at Big Bear, but it looked like there were only a few big public beaches around the lake and then a lot of smaller “private” ones. The public ones were nice- people were paddle boarding, swimming, and kayaking. But what I really liked was that you could stop off on the side of the road, almost anywhere, and make your own private beach. No one was around. Just you and your thoughts… and a random pirate ship passing by.
I didn’t spend a lot of time at Big Bear, but I definitely see why people love it. Angelinos go crazy if they see real, green grass and a tree that isn’t a palm tree. I think that’s the appeal of Big Bear for them. It’s real life. No billboards, no glamorous parties, no chronic traffic problems (you can park for free on the side of the road at Big Bear!!!), no rat race. For a few days everyone is just living. And relaxing. And enjoying. And appreciating the good things in real life. And then not too long after, they drive back to LA… and turn back into their miserable, narcissistic-selves.
Big Bear, you were great!
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When I was young, I didn’t venture out much further than my neighborhood. I was content. When choosing a college, I didn’t even think about going anywhere out of state. I was content. And then I graduated college and something weird happened. I wasn’t content. I wanted more. I wanted to see what else was out there. Sure, I’d been on a few vacations out of state, but I could count those on my hand:
For whatever reason, I didn’t really care about vacations very much (It was probably because I was just a miserable kid). I was happy staying in my hometown, with the people I knew, doing the things that I enjoyed doing.
It wasn’t until after graduation and I became strange that I realized I might not want to spend the rest of my life living in my hometown. Maybe I’ll move to another state someday. Or even another country!
That’s when I decided to move to Korea. Yep. After spending my entire life living contently in Michigan and rarely stepping foot outside it’s borders, I decided I wanted to move to the other side of the world on a whim. My parents thought I was nuts. But I was determined to do it. And so I did. And for a year, I lived in Seoul, South Korea teaching English. I visited five other Asian countries and had the time of my life. That year was when I finally learned just what else was out there.
So now I’m back in the States but no longer living in the Mitten. I’ve moved all the way to the Golden State to pursue a career in film. I’ve got an awesome job working in television, and when I have a weekend free or a break between shows, I try to fill it with traveling. That’s where this blog comes in (about time!).
Californians think they live in the greatest state in the world. To them, there’s nothing better than their beloved bear, sunshine, and vineyards. Well, I’ll be the judge of that. So far all I’ve seen is copious amounts of smog, awful traffic, and hippies. Yes, I live in L.A. I’m hoping the rest of the state makes up this disappointment, because so far, I’m unimpressed. They say you either love LA or hate it, and that’s so true. I’ve never met anyone who doesn’t have a strong opinion about it either way.
My plan is to take road trips. Lots of them. Short trips to the OC, day trips into the Mojave Desert, and hopefully, eventually some extended trips up north to the national parks. I’d love to say I’ll be doing this everyday, full time, and making you envious of my lifestyle. But that’s not true. As of now, I’m dirt poor. It wasn’t until recently I bought a real bed. For a year I was sleeping on an air mattress (3 actually. I’d buy a new one each time one popped), unemployed, and accumulating debt. I’m finally starting to move up in the world. I even have matching hand and shower towels.
After reading my childhood story and knowing my new life plan, I know what you must be thinking. But you’re wrong! I’m not some free-spirit hippie living a vagabond lifestyle. I actually thrive on having structure and routine in my life. I enjoy doing work and making money! Weirdly enough, I also just like traveling and not having a single place to call home (Sigh. I sound like such bag in the wind).
What I want from you:
A group of loyal followers that tells me how great I am. And people who give me money to go on trips and endless compliments. Just kidding. Really, I just want to e-meet some cool people who share my interest in traveling and adventure, have mad love or hate for LA, and aren’t on the gluten-free diet because it’s trendy.